Self-love this February

“No one else is going to make you happy until you are happy with yourself first

February as we know it, is the month of love which for some can be quite depressing, it’s a short month which can also sometimes feel like longest month of the year due to the long dark, cold and grey days!

The way I see it, is we have two options this month – to go through the month with a negative mind-set, feeling miserable and depressed or we can embrace this month as one step closer to spring, challenge our mind-set and learn to be happy with what we have already got.

Whether you’re single, married, a mum, a teenager, male or female we can all embrace a little bit of self-love in our lives. So, ask yourself what it is that you really like to do? How do you switch off? What do you wish you had more time for? Really think about these questions and set yourself the task of being a do-er this month, not a dreamer.

Time to make a change this February and learn to look after yourself, learn to say no and schedule in some ‘you time’ each week whether that be having a bath, going for a walk without your phone, taking yourself out for a nice meal or reading that book you always wished you had time for.

Make a change this month, do it for you and no one else!


New year, new you??

I don’t believe you need a new year to make a change. Don’t get me wrong, I am not anti-new years resolutions but for some people the pressure of keeping a new years resolutions can actually cause much more stress which often then leads to disappointment. To make a change you have to really want to do it, no matter what time of the year it is.

Whilst the new year is a great opportunity for some to make a change. Achieving goals won’t bring happiness until you learn to be happy with what you’ve already got in this present time. Once you have found that happiness and I am not talking about perfection because happiness doesn’t mean perfection, you will be surprised as to how your life will change for the better.

So, I believe that this year we should all strive to be happier, because everyone deserves to be happy – happier within our own bodies, within ourselves and with everything we already have.

Because until you are happy – nothing else matters!

‘Good thoughts, they will shine out of your face like sunbeams, and you will always look lovely.’ – Roald Dahl